2. Losing individuality
Another common situation occurs when a person ceases to have a life of their own:
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abandons his interests
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emotionally dependent on their partner
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seeks constant validation
Attraction in a relationship is also fueled by independence, personality, and individual growth.
When everything revolves around the relationship, mystery and interest are often lost.
3. Trying to completely change the other person
We all have imperfect aspects.
However, when a person tries to eliminate or completely control certain parts of their partner, it can generate internal resistance.
Emotional maturity does not consist of repressing the other person’s personality, but in learning to integrate it in a healthy way.
When someone feels constantly judged or corrected, they may seek acceptance elsewhere.